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Any man who tells you he isn’t in the slightest bit nervous about making his groom’s speech is, quite frankly, lying. So, if the mere thought of delivering a few words to a room full of people on your wedding day is making you sweaty palmed, rest assured, you’re not alone.

Whether you’re yet to put pen to paper, or you’re tweaking your final draft, there are perhaps a few things to consider. First things first, the content. As the groom, your main objective is to charm your guests and, in no uncertain terms, make your love for your new wife abundantly clear. It's also wise to pass on a few words of thanks, particularly to your parents, and finally, compliment and raise a toast to the bridesmaids.

No one expects the groom to be funny - that’s a task for the best man. So, unless you know you’re something of a wit, keep it clean and simple, and just a little on the soppy side.

Once the content is decided, it’s all about delivery. Nowadays some grooms decide to speak before the wedding breakfast begins, choosing to get the deed done so they can relax and enjoy the feast. In my opinion, it’s far wiser to deliver a speech to a well-fed and watered audience who are likely to be wholeheartedly appreciative. Whatever you decide, keep your alcohol consumption to a minimum before you speak, take a few deep breaths and await the moment. Don’t hide behind a flower arrangement, stand tall and speak slowly. If you’re remotely concerned about projecting your voice, use a microphone. And, if the emotion brings a tear to your eye, pause for a moment before carrying on. There’s nothing more romantic than a man in love, and if there’s a lump in your throat, there won’t be a dry eye in the house. You’ve achieved!